My Adorable and Exasperated Hubby,
Happy Valentine’s Day. I know, I know you do not believe in this riff raff, but you are the one who made me believe in love .Not the usual stuff of roses, diamonds or candlelight dinners but plain caring understated love by just being there for me all the time ,even when I frustrated the hell out of you and I do that a lot .You made me understand that love is a package deal which includes trust ,honesty and mostly every day care for each other.
You are the essence of my very being and I truly understand the term of being desperately in love .The self assured ,confident persona which I project today is only because of your love and faith in me. Words fail me as I try to express the whorl of emotions I feel when I recount all the countless little joys you have bestowed on me. I do try my best to keep you happy and fulfill your expectations of an ideal partner. I get depressed just thinking of a life without you. I may be a small part of your world ,but for me you are my world.
Over the years ,you have completely changed my outlook. I have transformed from a silly, immature and overemotional girl to a more stable person who is receptive to changes in life. In my case familiarity has not bred contempt as happens to everyone.I always count the days when you are away from me. You are easily the most kind and generous person I know.You are quick to forget and forgive which I am not. You have utterly spoiled me with your love and care. I know you are not into flowery speeches or remembering birthdays and anniversaries but there is no one I would have at my side other than you when I am sick or lonely.
I have been unreasonable, irrational and angry with you countless times but you have never lashed out at me .You taught me patience and tolerance.My dictatorial attitude brought you to the end of your tether but your love for me never waned. Even after a decade and a half of a blissful married life,I can honestly claim to be in love with you ,more now than ever .Our life together is like a string of pearls strung together , one moment as precious as the other.The sharing of a cup of tea after a hard day , going out for a walk in the summer rain or just listening to our favorite song.These moments provide the much needed respite in our otherwise hectic life.
You made me strive to become a better person and hope I too have made some positive impact in your life .There is nothing in our lives that I would change and I pray that the coming years too are as lovely as the past and present. Marital bliss is something I have taken for granted and I wish it remains the same during my lifetime.You are the reason for the smile on my face and joy in my life.